NOW AVAILABLE IN A BEAUTIFUL FULL-COLOR EDITION!

A guided path toward getting clearer about and closer to what your Languages for Modern Love might be!

The much-awaited companion workbook to the groundbreaking ebook, The Speaking from the Heart Workbook: A Practical Guide to Languages for Modern Love is an accessible, self-paced guide filled with more than 50 pages of activities and original exercises designed to make exploring and learning about Languages for Modern Love feel easier than ever.

This workbook is a mix of tools and original exercises designed to help you explore your relationship to love. They will help you cut through the biases, negative self-talk, assumptions, rules, and conditioning you are holding onto that are potentially getting in your way.

Available in beautiful full-color or practical black-and-gray!

Featuring:

  • 84 total pages

  • A fillable PDF format you can fill out on your phone, tablet, or computer. No printing required!
    OR

  • A perfect-bound paperback copy printed in black-and-gray that you can fill out using your favorite pen!

    —> Also available in a gorgeous full-color edition!

  • 50+ exercises and activities with options and alternatives for accessibility

  • Clear and concise instructions

  • A convenient glossary of key terms

  • A 15% off coupon for private coaching with Anne Hodder-Shipp

  • & more!


Take a look inside!

A graphic showing that The Speaking from the Heart workbook was heard on the We Can Do Hard Things podcast with Glennon Doyle, episode 151 “WTF with the Five Love Languages?”


What people are saying about
The Speaking from the Heart Workbook:

“[The Speaking from the Heart Workbook] is a refreshing and inclusive look at the ways we connect in relationships and will help clinicians, coaches, sex educators, and anyone attempting to engage in relationships with other humans as we navigate the messiness of life. I look forward to utilizing this workbook with my clients as a means of aiding their relational growth and highly recommend it to everyone!”

— Kristine Ives, LMFT, CET-2 (she/her) Certified Brainspotting Therapist and Co-Founder of BraveHeart Retreats

The Speaking from the Heart Workbook is for those of us who understand that love languages (the way we like to receive love) can be way more nuanced and complex than the original 5 would suggest. If you seek a more empathetic path to connect with a partner, friend, family member, housemate, co-worker, or almost anyone, this workbook can gently guide you through your own self-discovery of how you like to receive love and how you can more effectively give it to those you hold dear.”

— Elle Chase, CSE, ACS (she/her) Certified Sex Educator and Body Acceptance Advocate

“Anne Hodder Shipp has done it again. Taking the fluff out of love, and replacing it with actionable, relevant, and ever-so-useful ways we can make love meaningful and accessible — whether flying solo, building community, working out who you are still, traditionally partnered, or multi-amorous. Everyone will find some useful, reflective value in these exercises that lift love out of tired old romcoms and into modern relationships for all. If you have thought that languages of love were a cool concept, but never really knew how to level up, The Speaking from the Heart Workbook gives you the scaffolding you need to be a LOVE maker of the highest order. Go forth and build the relationships you desire. You have the tools you need right here.”

— Cyndi Darnell (she/her), Sex Therapist & Author of Sex When You Don’t Feel Like It: The Truth About Mismatched Libido & Rediscovering Desire

“The Speaking from the Heart ebook and workbook are a masterclass in understanding how we give and receive love. It opens the doors to a better understanding that love doesn’t have just one identity. I can love and be loved in so many ways and in so many situations. The open-ended ideas and self-reflection work that Anne has created reflect that we don’t have to subscribe to 5 (or even 18) types of love. There is a vastness about love that we are always discovering for ourselves, and the workbook creates a space for self-reflection that goes deep into the soul. Anytime I see people talk about the 5 Love Languages, I ALWAYS tell people about Speaking from the Heart. Comprehensive understanding, creative accessibility, humble awareness, and incredible insight — this ebook and workbook has it all.”

— Beck Gee-Cohen, MA, CADC-II (he/him), Director of LGBTQ+ Programming at Visions Adolescent Treatment Center

“The Modern Love Languages is an expansive update to the traditional way we've been taught about Love Languages and The Speaking from the Heart Workbook brings the 18 Modern Love Languages to life.  Anne guides you through thoughtful, fun, and practical activities that help you deepen your relationship with yourself and give you a better understanding of how you relate to love and your loved ones.  This engaging companion to Speaking from the Heart: 18 Languages for Modern Love is for anyone who wants to expand their understanding of how they give love and, most importantly, how they want to receive it.”

— Sarah Tomchesson (she/her) Sex Educator, Founder of PleasurePractices.com, and Co-founder of S3X Plus

"I think The Speaking from the Heart Workbook offers a safe space to explore your feelings around the relationship with yourself, loved ones, friends, intimate partners, etc. It gives you room to work out difficult feelings that you might not even know you had around relationships, and that's important. Its accessible, friendly layout and format make tapping into these difficult conversations an opportunity to grow, change, and heal, rather than a chore that must be completed."

— Andrew Gurza (they/he)
Disability Awareness Consultant, Host of "Disability After Dark" Podcast