The 18 Modern Love Languages offer an expansive and affirming alternative to the popular “love languages” idea.

Speaking from the Heart shows us that love is experienced in, and important for, ALL relationships — not just romantic ones.

And there’s WAY more than five ways to express it.


Want to know what your Modern Love Languages are? The Speaking from the Heart Workbook makes it easy!


Understanding how we do (and don't) express and receive love can be a foundational part of our most nourishing relationships. Rejecting relationship hierarchy and centering platonic love, the 18 Modern Love Languages gives readers tangible tools for identifying their needs while navigating others', and does it with a friendly and compassionate attitude.

Speaking from the Heart: 18 Languages for Modern Love and The Speaking from the Heart Workbook make it easy to learn about and explore the 18 Modern Love Languages and identify which ones feel most important you — and which ones don’t.

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Accountability

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Personal Growth

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Platonic Touch

Solidarity

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A graphic showing that The Speaking from the Heart workbook was heard on the We Can Do Hard Things podcast with Glennon Doyle, episode 151 “WTF with the Five Love Languages?”

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About the author:

Anne Hodder-Shipp (she/they) is an award-winning certified sex and relationships educator and dreamwork practitioner who's worked in the sexuality field since 2007. Their candid commentary and culturally informed perspective about relationships, identity, and sex education have appeared in major media outlets, including Prevention; O, The Oprah Magazine; Men's Health; Teen Vogue; Vice; Cosmopolitan; and more.